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Fresh Start on Health and Happiness

Last year was a strong one for me. I found my love for blogging and was getting my life together by getting healthy. I was feeling great and my low self-esteem was slowly vanishing.

Everything felt like it was falling into place. My relationship with Jessi, which was already a great one, was growing stronger because we were supporting one another.

I felt good about myself and, in turn, felt closer to my husband. My children were eating healthy and getting out more.

Then things took a turn…

I’ve been off the health wagon for more than nine months. The weight that too me a year to lose, I’ve put back on.

I really felt good about the weight I’d lost because I didn’t rely some fad diet. All my success was from eating right, exercising, and doing little things to make myself feel good so I would be motivated to stay on track.

Now, unfortunately, because I have been off track so long, I’m sluggish, my family and I don’t eat right, and I push everyone away because I don’t like myself anymore.

And, as I’m sure you’ve also noticed, it’s been forever since I posted anything because I’ve also lost that inner spark where the inspiration to write came from. POOF! Gone!

On the positive side, I’ve come to realize my triggers and am optimistic that knowing these challenges ahead of time will help me now that I’ve made the decision to get back on track. It’s helpful for me to know what nudges me in the wrong direction, because it gives me the opportunity to put together a game plan before these eating triggers rear their ugly heads.

It’s going to be a long road, but I know from previous experience that when I’m living a healthier lifestyle, every aspect of my life is positively affected.

So, here I am back at the beginning, setting my goals and doing my prep work. I realize this is going to be anything but an overnight process. It’s all about planning and taking baby steps. I’m happy to report I’ve already made some big progress with getting healthy by quitting smoking! That was a huge win! So, with that major hurdle out of the way, I’m going to focus on what I did right and keep moving forward.

I’m extremely excited to be taking the time for me again and hope to take you all along on my journey. I’m also looking forward to sharing what I learn along the way and what helps, and in some cases, what doesn’t. I’ve missed all our awesome readers and am totally stoked to be back.

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Wellness Wednesday: What is Clean Eating and How Does It Affect Your Health and Lifestyle?

Clean eating is a diet in which you only consume natural, whole foods.

Many foods, such as complex carbohydrates, fresh fruits and vegetables, and lean proteins are the staples of a clean diet.

It further requires you to veer away from such foods as bad fats (hydrogenated, trans-fat), man-made sugar, preservatives, white bread and any other excess ingredients that are unnecessary. To put it plain and simple, if it was made by man then it is no good.

I understand altering a diet like this makes for a difficult lifestyle change, especially for those of us who consistently eat processed foods. The fact of the matter is, after your body adjusts to clean eating, not only do you feel better, but your body will also stop craving fatty, processed junk fairly quickly and your system will be free of all the excess, unnecessary additives that are packed into those foods.

When on any diet, practicing the following clean eating tips will help you develop more healthy habits over time.

Cook healthy meals: Instead of opting for the fast food baggy, a piece of leftover birthday cake or that microwavable meal, plan ahead and make something both delicious and healthy. There are several great cookbooks available chocked full of recipes you can make ahead of time, freeze and reheat later in the week when you’re in a pinch. One of my personal favorites is Don’t Panic Dinner’s in the Freezer. Cooking is also about experimenting, so feel free to swap out some unhealthy ingredients for healthier ones. For example, use sliced eggplant or zucchini in lasagna instead of bleached noodles.

Drink plenty of water: Drinking eight glasses of water a day has enormous health benefits, as listed in our previous post, “Wellness Wednesday: Start Getting Healthy by Drinking Water.”

Eat five to six smaller meals a day: The reason five to six smaller meals are better for you than three larger meals is that eating every two hours in smaller portions helps prevent overeating. Eating more frequently not only lowers bad cholesterol, but also your risk of cardiovascular disease. It also boosts your metabolism, which in turn burns more calories. Also, eating five or six smaller meals helps control your blood sugar levels which keeps your energy level rockin’ throughout the day. And last, but certainly not least, it helps you to build more muscle, which burns fat, because your muscles are getting a constant stream of amino acids and nutrients when you combine these eating habits with regular exercise.

Eliminate or limit alcoholic beverages: Alcohol, being a diuretic, leads to water loss and dehydration. When you’re dehydrated, your body burns 2% fewer calories in a day, making it more difficult to lose excess weight. Also, alcohol causes your body to lose important minerals, such as calcium, magnesium, potassium and zinc, which are all vital to chemical reactions, fluid balance and muscle contraction and relaxation. Alcohol has no nutritional value and contains approximately 7 calories per gram. Those are empty calories, ladies! And as if all those reasons to avoid alcohol aren’t bad enough, it lowers your inhibitions, causing you to eat foods you would normally avoid. Who hasn’t craved greasy food after a night of cocktails?

Eliminate refined sugar: Refined sugar raises your blood’s insulin levels, which in turn depresses your immune system, causing your body’s ability to ward off diseases to weaken. Raised insulin levels cause you to gain weight because insulin promotes fat storage. Refined sugar contains no nutrients and requires your body to use previously stored vitamins and minerals to metabolize it. When you deplete the body’s stored minerals and vitamins, it then metabolizes cholesterol and fatty acids. This contributes to higher blood serum triglycerides, cholesterol and obesity, because there is higher fatty acid storage around the organs.

Make healthy choices when dining out: When out with your friends or family, take a moment to look the menu over. Many restaurants have delicious and healthy options, so you can occasionally eat out without blowing your diet.

Never skip Breakfast: Skipping breakfast in order to lose weight isn’t helpful at all. In fact, it leads to weight gain. Skipping breakfast is strongly linked to obesity. By the time you do get around to eating, you’re super hungry and are more likely to eat more than usual, or snack on higher calorie foods. This leads to excess calories and  rapid weight gain.

Pack healthy meals: When on the go, pack a healthy meal (or meals) the night before to prevent the temptation of grabbing a quick, unhealthy snack on your way out the door.

Clean eating is not only great for your health, but also a fabulous lifestyle change. Your body will thank you for it!

~Amy~

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Disclaimer: Jessi and Amy are not medical professionals or trained dietitians. This is not meant to be medical advice. We’re ordinary women who are working on our health and sharing our observations and opinions. It’s important that you speak to your doctor before beginning any new diet or exercise regimen. We are simply sharing our journey and are not liable for decisions you make regarding your diet and exercise routine.

Wellness Wednesday: Start Getting Healthy by Drinking Water

It’s sad, but true that losing weight doesn’t happen over night. It takes time and patience to change the habits that are standing in your way of reaching your health goals. If you concentrate on building a healthy foundation and then add other beneficial changes little by little, rather than considering yourself “on a diet,” you’ll find that sticking to your new lifestyle is much easier.

Diets are short-term Band-Aid solutions and the effects wear off, life changes are permanent and yield long-term benefits.

To begin building your healthy foundation, I would like to encourage you to take a small, but significant step in the right direction by drinking eight 8 oz glasses of water each day. It’s a small change that makes a huge difference!

Being well-hydrated helps you lose weight, because it:

  • Flushes bi-products from fat breakdown out of your system
  • Is a natural appetite suppressant
  • Regulates your body temperature
  • Fuels muscles
  • Leaves you feeling more energized when working out
  • Helps pump oxygen to blood cells, so your heart and other organs don’t have to work as hard, leaving you feeling less fatigued
  • Lubricates your joints and muscles, making you less likely to get cramps or sprains
  • Raises your metabolism, because it aids in digestion
  • Along with fiber it helps prevent constipation.

Water makes you more productive! Since your brain is made mostly of water, drinking plenty of water helps you to be more alert and concentrate better. Also, for those of us who suffer from headaches or migraines, water can help to ease or eliminate such a nuisance. While there are many reasons for headaches and migraines, dehydration is the most common one.

Not only does drinking plenty of water help fight against the flu virus and other ailments, having some with lemon juice can help prevent intestinal problems, respiratory disease, rheumatism and arthritis. Water can further help prevent bladder and colon cancer as well.

With all these great benefits, water is an everyday must, so drink up!

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~Amy and Jessi~

Disclaimer: Jessi and Amy are not medical professionals or trained dietitians. This is not meant to be medical advice. We’re ordinary women who are working on our health and are sharing our observations and opinions. It’s important that you speak to your doctor before beginning any new diet or exercise regimen. We are simply sharing our journey and are not liable for decisions you make regarding your diet and exercise routine.

Wellness Wednesday: Preparing for Healthy Changes and Weight Loss

Most people like the idea of waking up one morning and just going for it. They feel like tomorrow’s that magical day when it all just comes together, but when it comes to being fit and healthy, a little prep work goes a long way toward keeping you on track.

When it comes to truly changing your body, you need to have the right mindset. Here are a few things to consider before starting on the road to a healthy new you!

What is your motivation for weight loss? For most people weight loss is about fitting into a smaller size, so they can look and feel better. If this truly is your motivation embrace it! Get an outfit in your goal size. Lay it out and take a picture. Hang your photo in a convenient place where you can look at it everyday. My personal favorite spot is my fridge. It reminds me every time I go to reach for a snack to grab the yogurt instead of the ice-cream.

If getting fit is for family and health reasons, then post pictures of family and friends on your fridge instead! Reminding yourself of your motivation on a daily basis is key.

Deal with life’s distractions! Are you emotionally capable and have the resources to take on this challenge at the moment? If you are coping with stressful situations in your life right now, you may want to make an effort to resolve some of those issues before starting a weight loss program.

There are exceptions however. Sometimes getting fit and healthy in the midst of chaos gives a person a feeling of control and a better sense of self.

Are you an emotional eater? Most of us are prone to emotional eating habits which can cause added pounds and stress. Look for a healthier habit to replace emotional eating with, like talking with a friend, taking a stroll or writing.

We all fall off the wagon from time to time, but instead of beating yourself up, learn from your mistakes. Look at what you’ve done in the past to get healthier and make a pact with yourself to do better. Unless you change those counterproductive habits, failed strategies won’t work this time around either.

Pick a day when you are going to be able to really implement the start of a healthy new you. A day or two before beginning, focus on making a healthy menu and meal plan that you can shop for. Also, give yourself time to look into childcare or get your children on a scheduled nap time, so you are free to workout. Some gyms, like the YMCA, offer in-house childcare while you exercise.

Remember it’s about taking care or you! You’re working on feeling great in your own skin and adding many happy, wonderful years to your life!

~AMY~

Disclaimer: Jessi and Amy are not medical professionals or trained dietitians. This is not meant to be medical advice. We’re ordinary women who are working on our health and are sharing our observations and opinions. It’s important that you speak to your doctor before beginning any new diet or exercise regimen. We are simply sharing our journey and are not liable for decisions you make regarding your diet and exercise routine.

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Happily On My Way to A Healthier Me

I’m  a woman in transition.

I’m not moving to a new home, starting a new job, getting married or having a baby. I’m working on my health.

I’ve battled with my body for as long as I can remember. There’s never been a time when I didn’t feel self-conscious about my weight or looks…until now. No, I haven’t undergone any dramatic surgeries or sold my soul to a crossroads demon.

I’ve adopted a new attitude. An attitude of self-acceptance and love. There are things I desire to change for my health, and I’ve finally had that super light bulb moment in my mind. An epiphany of self-awareness.

I can’t change the things in my past, but I’m ready for the future and want to live it in a healthy, happy, extraordinary way. I’m ready to focus on my health. Not my weight. Not my dress size. My health.

How can I feel good about myself if I’m still thinking toxic thoughts and demeaning myself? A woman’s worst critic is herself, and I’m not exception.

I love myself and the roller coaster of events that have led up to who I am now, because, if I went back and changed something, I might not have one or more of the glorious joys that I celebrate every day. My husband. My marriage. My children. My relationships. The opportunity to share myself with all of you.

Those wonderful things are all products of the life I’ve led thus far. Now, I’m choosing to leave any excess baggage behind and continue on with all the treasures and none of the pain, guilt, frustration, jealousy and anger that have been serious roadblocks in achieving the goals I have yet to attain.

I’m not looking at the past attempts at improving my health as a series of failures. They were lessons I needed to learn. Crash diets and extreme measures have never served me in the past. For every ounce of success, I gained a pound of self-doubt.

I’m tired of waiting for the bomb to drop. I’m done riding that train. My life is worth living and my grandchildren will be worth spoiling.

This time around, I’m not measuring my success with a scale, but with how I feel. I won’t be giving you updates with how many pounds or inches I’ve lost, but I invite you to watch my pictures as they change. For the first time, it’s not about my waist size. It’s about my life.

I have faith in myself and a new-found appreciation for my strength and heart. This is about me. And I’m so excited about it.

Cinch! Book Review

I’ve battled with my weight my entire life, so when I was given the opportunity to review New York Time’s Best-Selling Author, Cynthia Sass’s, latest book Cinch!, I was really excited!


When it arrived in the mail a couple days ago, I started reading it right away. My first impression of the book, after reading Cinch! was…I can do this!

There are several things about this plan that really encourage me:

  • In addition to water, which is a key weight-loss tool and hella good for me, tea is part of the plan
  • I’ll be eating a variety of meals throughout the day, including dark chocolate, in the order I want to
  • Yeah…you read that right, dark chocolate…every day
  • There is a 5-day plan to start me off with a bang, reducing the cravings and amping up the weight loss
  • There are lots of easy recipes (including those for vegans). What doesn’t sound good about Black Bean Tacos with Cilantro-Jalapeno Guacamole?
  • Through Facebook and Twitter, support is always available

Cinch! is formatted in a very user-friendly way, with suggestions, support and explanations all along the way. I HATE reading a book that is meant to help me, but doesn’t clearly explain why the author created the plan the way she did. Am I supposed to just take it on faith that the ideas are solid and there is a method to the madness? That’s just not the way I work.

Cynthia Sass’s book is clear, friendly and supportive. What she says makes sense to me. It inspires me. And most importantly, it makes me feel that I really have the power to change my eating habits and get healthy.

I love my children. I want to be around for them for a long, long time. With my family’s history of diabetes and high blood pressure, I know that not caring is begging for serious health problems, most likely very soon.

Cinch! is a new beginning for me. And, in order to keep myself on track, I’m going to share my journey with you.

I haven’t begun the program, because, as you know, Mama and her brood have been sick. As soon as we’re in tip top shape, the Brocker and I are going for it. HARDCORE!!

Keep an eye out for updates! They’re coming. I appreciate your support in advance!

If you’d like to get your copy of Cinch! You can buy it HERE.

If you join the program, please let me know and we’ll do this together!

The fine print: I was provided with a copy of Cinch! free of charge for this review through the One2One Network. I was not in any way guided in my review. That’s not cool. All opinions are my own and free from any outside influence. That’s a Mama’s Got Flair promise. ~Jessi